Friday, September 28, 2007

the better woman

(this was a comment i made to a blog... it's worth posting as a blog entry, i suppose)

hm... in a supposed love triangle, there will always be 3 sides to a story. his, yours, and hers. you said you trust him... that's good, then. yun ang anggulo mo.

maraming angles ang pwede.... sabi nga ng bf mo, she likes him... so maybe, gumagawa lang ng away yung girl.

yung isang angle, pwede namang nagsisinungaling yung guy at sila nga nung girl.

kahit san mo ilugar, magulo yung situation... if you really trust your bf, then, you should stop checking his friendster account na lang altogether... para wala kang nalalaman or nababasa. and besides, the message was obviously not for you.

saying this based on experience.

sa totoo lang, mas gusto ko na lang that i don't know everything, para di ako nasasaktan. Coz if i really love the guy, kahit masaktan ako, i'll give him another chance... so why bother getting hurt?

kung mahal ka naman nung guy, kahit na ilang babae pa ang makilala niyan, ikaw pa rin ang gagawin niyang gf. ikaw ang kanin at ulam, silang mga kabit--dessert. oo nga, masarap ang dessert, pero hindi naman nabubuhay ang tao sa dessert lang eh. nakakasawa yun. and men will always be men... they'll flirt, they'll hurt you... in the end, they always choose the better woman.

so, be that woman. =)

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today was my first day with Nivel 3 and Erick Manorca (Pinoy)... Dapat si Lola prof namin, pero hindi eh... ok lang... it was fun... namangha ako sa kanya and i envy him... Ian, naging prof mo ba siya? anyway, we played a game... verb conjugations... syempre nalito na naman ako. pero ok lang, di naman namamahiya si Erick eh. At wala na naman si Eng-Eng dun to make me feel like a lesser person. *huhuhu*

anyway, sabi ni Erick, di daw ako mukhang 32. oh, hah?! hehe. Pero tong si Jaime Antonio, sabi sa kin, 38 na daw ba ko... lintek. Siya kaya yung mukhang 38. Joke! haha. *peace tayo, Jaime! Arriba Letran!*

Mukhang mapapasubo na naman ako sa oral nito (ang fanget pakinggan!!! ew!!!)... so, i think i really need to review before coming to class. Buti na lang Wed and Fri lang sked ko ngayon... i have time to spare.

Zzzz...

2 comments:

  1. But if you are the better woman i don't think your bf/husband will ever look for another girl. say he cheated on you and left you once and get back to you again and never leave you again, then i should say you are the better woman and he chose you. But if he did it again and it bacame an on and off cycle, then i think he is still in search for the better woman.
    This is also based on experience. I didn't give up easily. I endured the pain. I gave him 4 chances, i forgave him. But your heart gets numbed after being beaten up several times and you can't feel anything anymore and you just can't find forgiveness in your heart anymore. That was the time i told myself enough. I love my children but i don't want them to have an unstable family. I have two boys, and i don't want them to grow up thinking that its okay to leave your family behind for a while and then when your done with the other girls, that's when they can go back to their wives. I want them to learn how to respect women. And not to play with their hearts. It wasn't an easy thing to do. A lot of determination, a lot of crying, a lot of courage, a lot of Faith. At the end of the day i'd pray and ask God to give me strength and take away the pain everyday. I gave in easily before because i love him and i love my children. But i was cheated several times and i owe it to myself to save me from any pain again. You have to mean what you say, i said NO the last time and that was final. He did everything to win me back again, but it was over.

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  2. sayang di ka nagpakilala... =)

    i agree with you. pero depende kasi din yun sa napangasawa, sa situation, sa degree ng love, at sa degree ng kasalanan.

    if the guy and your relationship is worth saving, i think you still should.

    kami, hiwalay sa ngayon, pero i am not closing my doors. hindi lang dahil super love na love ko siya. it's because i am sure he just got lost. in time he'll find his way back home. i just hope that he uses a map this time. =)

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